2012年7月11日星期三

Ostrich state of mind

Meet danger, ostriches will his head in the sand, think oneself eyes to see (Diablo 3 Gold), and see not safety. Their this kind of practice is true whether no looking, but this kind of negative and self-deception mind, but psychologists summed up as "ostrich state of mind". Pedestrian's city, such "ostrich people" is not rare. A lot of people hate the city life, too lazy to deal with complex strain of interpersonal relationship, fear that they can't adapt to the changing society...... Finally, they brought their "hidden" rise, work a little change, life unpleasant frustration, hide, to evade they should have the responsibility of the role and social life. "Ostrich mentality" is to escape from reality, temporary protection. But it is also a kind of dare not face the cowardly behavior problems, know problems will occur also do not go to think countermeasures, the results will only make problem is more serious, more difficult to work with. How to overcome this kind of mind? First of all, to timely remind you, escape to the price will only disappointed, only the initiative, to better protect them. Then, to build some "power", such as more than usual and colleagues, friends talk about, and relatives and friends walking more, frustration, you will also have more strong backing. Finally, appropriate give yourself some "setback exercise", such as survival training, hard to attend the local experience an inferior, training hard bitterness of quality.

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