No where did i suggest it was her fault. I asked her if she could think back and identify where the abuse started (Diablo iii Gold). I did not suggest marriage counseling (which I often suggest to couples whose communications have broken down). What I asked the OP to do is to see if she could figure out where the problem started -- we are seeing a lot of men AND women who are reacting to the current economic stresses by lashing out at those they purport to love.
What I was trying to get the OP to think about was what factors may have been impacting his behavior -- drug use? alcohol? mental health issues, such as increasing paranoia (unreasonable jealousy, for example.) Was this a sudden change? If so, what might have caused it? Or was it something that was always there, but she is just now becoming aware that it's unhealthy? It's important for women to understand that a lot of factors can play into abuse, and IT'S NOT THEIR FAULT. If anything I wrote suggested that, I'm sorry, but that was definitely NOT my intention (Diablo iii Gold). As far as I'm concerned, when anyone stoops to violence against the one they purport to love -- be it man OR woman (and yes, there are women abusers, too), it's a deal-breaker in the relationship.
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